Don't Expect. Connect.

I met the coolest motherfucker a few days ago at a coffee shop. To most people upfront, you wouldn't think the guy to be social or talkative. Normal jeans and shirt and a limp in his step, Dude, we can call him, was the first to talk my ears off when we looked at each other. 

He talked a good bit. The best part was that he didn't seem to care what came out of his mouth. Now I can tell you that was not actually the case because he also had a nice perception for what kind of effect his speech had on people. And you have to always take that kind of thing into consideration. But for the most part. Dude lived life, and his perception was his own, not to be changed or confused with other peoples. 

I won't divulge into the details but he lived his life broke and screwed for awhile. And has been through enough. Now he drives limousines for big wigs in Milwaukee and does quite well. The asshole in me thought that when he first started talking to me that he may have wanted something. I should have known better. The guy never expected ANYTHING from me. Dude was just a cool guy. So I bought him a coffee. And it was as if he got it and wasn't entirely surprised that I did. After all, it was a pleasure to talk with the guy. And all he did was ask me a few questions and make me laugh. 

Women...and people in general...really enjoy that. You wan't to have a few more ladies in your life? Simply show them a good time, by having a little fun with them up front. Try and give a shit about them and stop thinking that buying them a cosmo is gonna get you laid. It won't. And when you TRULY begin to get good at making women loosen up when you meet them. That whole sex and dating thing will practically fall in your lap.

GIVE.

Hope Lives. 

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